Based in Melbourne and available Australia wide, as a Dom/me I am a deeply passionate sensual sadist, cruel and playful in equal measure, bringing a touch of the exotic and theatrical to our time together.
With me you can anticipate an appreciation for subtlety and delight in seduction – everything from gentle sensuality, intense erotic exploration, all the way to extreme edge play and powerfully transformative rituals.
Shibari (Japanese Rope Bondage) is my singular passion and I love the powerful sense of connection, immersion and submission found within those coils. I’ve studied with riggers such as Vlada and Falco (Russia), Nawashi Kanna (Japan), Yoi Yoshida (Japan), Osada Steve (Japan), Shigonawa Bingo (Japan), Avalon (Mel) and institutions such as Sydney Rope Dojo and Studio Kink. Whether it’s the thrill of a high energy performance, pushing our minds and bodies to their joyful limts, an intimate session that submerges you deeply into serenity, a brutal take down and imprisonment or to turn you into My perfectly exposed object of pleasure, I revel in the artistry and eroticism of Shibari.
As an Escort I enjoy delving into possibilities that we create together – exploring the dance of words, ideas and conversation; a simple night in; as your companion at a social event or gig; a night out on the town to remember; a sensual massage with a glass of wine; tender explorations, to passionate lovemaking, to wild kinky bedroom adventures… and more. I am a hedonist, and every bit as adept at pleasure as I am with pain – to explore desire and connection in its many forms is my passion. Whether you’re a shy first timer or an experienced and lusty explorer, say hello… who knows where it will lead?
Perhaps there’s something deeper you wish to explore, aspects of yourself you wish to face, discover or resolve, patterns you want to break and be free from, shadows from which you need to be released, a scream that needs to be heard, an intention which needs to be given power. I am deeply passionate about transformative rituals through the tools of BDSM with focused intent and erotic energies.
I have a keen interest in exploration and helping others find their voices and tools they need for their own journeys into kink, as lifestylers or professionals! As such I offer workshops, training and private lessons in my areas of expertise. I deeply love helping others discover and nurture their authentic selves, and discarding notions of a “typical” Dom/me or sub to find your own path, while adhering to the highest standards of safety, communication and consent.
Being a rampant exhibitionist and embracing eroticism in all of its forms, I love capturing my experiences on film and sharing these moments with those who appreciate the visual medium of erotic art. I’ve been blessed to work with some wonderful fellow explorers and together we’ve created content ranging from simple joyful indulgences to the most sinful, decadent and perhaps disturbing explorations – you’ll be able to find them and more in my growing collection – or even request your own custom fantasy scenario!
One of my artistic passions in life, music has always been there as a conduit for primal expression, connecting words, concepts and feelings in a visceral outpouring of the inner self into the world. The same energies are present between my music and sessions, performances and explorations, another way of connecting. My current musical project is ZCluster, an Industrial / Gothic / Electronic band.
- A night of Shibari, live music and magick
- Update 2/7/2022 – Shibari Performance & Domina Parties July
- Sex Work Inclusive Psychological Practice Panel
- MELBOURNE – Speaking at the Rally for International Day of Ending Violence Against Sex Workers
- SURPRISE! Domina Parties are back on 18th December 2021!
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